I believe that it is iTunes sync that times out.Most people didn't have any trouble with the upgrade. Those that did seemed to have problems like I did of very long backups prior to the actual upgrading. I learned that I needed to delete some apps (and reinstall after upgrading) that cache a lot of data like Zinio, news apps, etc. Then it went just fine. I updated my 64 and my husband's 32.
Is it ITunes that is timing out?
Apple suggested she delete a bunch of her photos and retry, but we were trying to avoid that hassle.
Thanks so much for the help.
BTW---your 64 and your husband's 32 sounds like my house!
Texsport